Amidst the biggest health risks for always single women in their 30s and 40s is Self Blame. Research shows that women are more prone to blaming themselves while men have a lot of chances to project blame onto others. When asked to explain their response, they all basically said identical thing. For example, whenever leaving the other half saying no, when the women were asked if they have been single by choice, in one of my studies almost exactly half said yes. University professor, and author of a couple of books on single women, To be honest I see the destructive ‘fallout’ from women blaming themselves for not being married, as a family therapist for 38 years.

The huge issue isn’t just that are socialized to be the caretaker of relationships, to be on guard for potential problems and resolve them before they become serious.

I want to ask you a question., what’s that? It’s two people willing to talk about problems as they come up, addressing, together, potential problems -before they become big problems. Learning to deal productively with relationship problems is the most challenging fact of relationships, Anyone can be loving.

If it ain’t broke, men are socialized with another mandate, you shouldn’t fix it. Thus, look, there’re more single women so men ready for a healthy relationship. Basically, the worse thing is that even when women understand that men are not carrying their share of relationships, with that said, this self blame is what makes the upcoming documentary. While talking to hundreds of single women, producers Kerry David, of and Michelle Cover, of Boston, go beneath the bubbly surface of Sex and the City. Therefore, I can do something about it, As Sara, a woman in my study said, I’d rather think the trouble is me. Dr.

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Ann Miller is a certified mental health coach and wellness writer with a strong background in psychology and emotional resilience. With over a decade of experience in helping individuals manage stress, anxiety, and burnout, Ann specializes in making complex mental health topics accessible and empowering.

She holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology and has worked with both individual clients and organizations to promote emotional well-being and work-life balance. Through her writing, Ann aims to break the stigma surrounding mental health and offer practical, compassionate guidance for everyday challenges.

When she's not writing or consulting, Ann enjoys early morning yoga, quiet reading time, and exploring nature trails with her dog. Her personal philosophy: "Mental health is not a luxury — it’s a foundation for everything we do."

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